Funny you mentioned that one Roz I actually bought a card from a seller who had that one (maybe not the exact one but it had a perfect flower in the center of the swatch) pictured in the auction. Needless to say that wasn't the one I got, but considering I picked it up for like $120 or so at the time and it had a better pattern than the one I had I couldn't complain to much. And the card also didn't meet it's reserve so I made an offer and he accepted. It was a little outside the proper ebay procedure so I was actually a little nervous about never getting the card but the seller had like 600 + feedback so I thought it was a decent bet.
Even scarier is I bought both a master FOTR costume and TT costume set from a guy who's auctions didn't meet reserve. I offered him like $750 for both sets and he accepted. He said he was selling off his collection because they were having a baby and couldn't justify having all the money tied up in a collection. He was Canadian so I felt I could trust him more

Canadian's as a whole seem more honest than Americans. Anyway it took a while, but it all worked out and I thought I got a pretty good deal. A couple of good offline transactions, but could have been a disaster. I think I know better now.