Nienna: who said she does not owe me money too? I decided to give her the time she needs to sort everything out. I don't know her that well, I email with her because I'm in the same situation as most of you. She wanted some cards from me she did not pay for yet. It's a substantial amount. I did not know she had other ebay accounts that she is stilling bidding with, that surprises me too.
The reason I posted my initial reply is that I don't like these forum discussions about a person that is not paying. Because they usually get out of hand without any reason, you never know the true story behind it. And what she emailed me is not something you joke about or use as an excuse when it's not true. But I consider a deal between a buyer and a seller private, the same thing as I consider a persons personal matters private.
Maybe I'm too naive in this case or too social, or maybe it's the Christmas spirit

but I think it will work out for all of us. I really hope so because I would like to get my money too.

I don't know if she is a member on this forum but I wish Duskatamonsul all the best and I hope she will work out everything with the sellers she bought from.