I was bidding on an auction where the same thing you're going through kept happening. Finally when it was minutes before the auction end and it still said Reserve Not Met, I began entering bids until I finally reached the reserve right at the end of the auction and won it. The sellers reserve wasn't really that high considering the card it was and I managed to get the card at a reasonable price.
The card was my update Hermione Pink Top dirty variant w/ stitch holes that I won for $39.99.

This was when this same card went for $59.95 and $68.50 in the 2 previous auctions.
I think the other bidders got discouraged when the reserve wasn't being met and gave up on the card. Luckily I didn't.
So don't give up hope Sharon, you still may get the card yet!
